Unless you, either by chance or design, found your kinky love match early on, it’s not uncommon for couples to discover this difference years later into the relationship. It makes sense when you think about it. It can be scary to reveal our authentic sexual selves to another person, even when we are relatively sure that that person cares about us. It feels like a risk. And it takes courage. But luckily for you, I have learned a lot from my clients about how to deal with this – what works and what doesn’t. So, struggle no more my friends.

I get a lot of inquiries from men of all ages who have sexual performance problems, erection problems topping the list.  Many of these men have not consulted a doctor because they believe it must be “mental” (and perhaps they also don’t’ like going to doctors or taking medication). So, I’m often their first phone call, and that makes me happy. I think Sex Therapists are the best place to begin, even if we end up recommending that you consult with a Urologist, too.